Thank you for your kind words. I agree there is a squeamishness around discussing sex. For many of us it’s much easier to ‘close our eyes and do it” than it is to tolerate the discomfort of talking about it. Seeing and being seen exploring the erotic is a difficult thing for many of us to do. Most of us have no role models for this in our communities. Many people in this realm are pioneers in their communities doing so. Sadly still for many the risks are also great too. Nevertheless, we persist. And yes the absence of pleasure is part of a much larger structure, particularly for those born with vulvas or assigned female at birth. The systems that stop us talking about sex are insidious and intentional – and often maintained and supported by other vulva owners as a way of preserving status within the patriarchy. There is a lot to unpack in pursuing pleasure. Onward!

Thanks Jenn, Such lovely words of praise and encouragement. I am glad you feel inspired to open up and create more within this field. I am well, thank you for asking. I hope you are too . xx

I just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your talk! I didn’t get to hear it during the Masters, but it was good that I got a chance to see it now. I thought it was beautiful and important work and you did it so beautifully. I have been so grateful that you are speaking about sex and relationships with such complexity as it has voiced what is made so difficult to speak out-loud. Your use of the Tree of Life practice let me notice how this could be used in so many ways. Thankyou for you bravery because it opens up so much more space for us all. I really appreciate all of your posts on Facebook…I love them all, hope all is well in your part of the world, Jen xx

Oh, Thank you corrie. It’s great to hear that this presentation was helpful in you learning more about yourself.

Muchismas Gracias Marta!

Thanks so much. It is lovely to read your feedback.